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Talking About Bullying: A Guide for School and District Leaders


Creating a connected, safe school culture starts with strong communication. As a leader, your messaging sets the tone for students, families, and staff—helping everyone understand their role in preventing bullying.

Start With a Clear Definition

Before your community can take action, make sure everyone is on the same page. Use your state’s official definition of bullying and supplement it with resources from StopBullying.gov. Clear definitions allow you to communicate consistently and confidently across staff, families, and students.

Involve Families

Families are powerful allies in bullying prevention. Keeping them informed and engaged reinforces your message beyond the school walls. Consider:

  • Hosting digital safety events like Family Tech Talk
  • Sharing tips for monitoring social media and apps
  • Educating families about emerging risks like AI-powered interactions

FACT: 58% of kids report experiencing mean comments online

Stay on Top of Digital Trends

Student communication moves quickly. Apps, anonymous messaging, and AI tools can introduce risks. Educating your community about trends allows families and staff to respond proactively and maintain a safe environment.

Communicate Clearly and Consistently

Your messaging must be precise, timely, and actionable. Best practices include:

  • Clear updates on incidents and reporting protocols
  • Follow-ups on progress and next steps
  • Using multiple channels—emails, newsletters, website posts—to reach everyone

FACT: Schools have faced serious consequences when bullying reports were mishandled

Provide a Dedicated Support Channel

If you don’t have an anti-bullying specialist, consider recruiting one. A dedicated contact ensures students, families, and staff have a reliable resource for reporting concerns. Promote this role through newsletters, emails, and your school website to build trust and confidence.

Celebrate Community & Culture

Bullying prevention isn’t just about rules—it’s about fostering a positive culture. Showcase student-led initiatives, collaborative projects, and inclusive achievements. Highlight stories that make families feel connected to a thriving school community.

Resources for Leaders


Originally posted 2025




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